Loving To Love is a Nairobi-based private practice that centres decolonial &
liberation-oriented approaches to mental health, relationships and leadership.
A space that is intentional about meeting those who visit as they are, willing to slow down and connect with the nuances and complexities of being human, and spacious enough to honour the ongoing process of becoming
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Systems Aware • Trauma Informed • Emotions Focused • Queer Affirming
My name is Tula Bischof, the founder of Loving To Love & a KCPB-registered and licensed psychologist in Nairobi, Kenya. License no. CP1028P26)
I believe in a psychology that is honest about the social conditions that shape us. One that does not reduce suffering to individual responsibility, but recognises the histories, systems, and relationships we exist within. A psychology that honours emotions, supports agency, and creates space for more compassionate ways of being.
"From the very beginning, her presence brought a sense of trust, calm, and grounded wisdom that's hard to put into words. She has a rare gift for truly seeing people, not just where they are but who they are capable of becoming"​
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~ Banzy Nyaga
Coaching & Therapy
Coaching is a forward-focused process for when you’re ready to create change, integrate awareness, & take active steps toward what you want to embody.
​​To learn more about coaching click here...​
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This offering is for small to medium organizations in Kenya that are seeking to implement regenerative approaches to workplace wellbeing, team communication & cross-cultural or intergenerational dynamics with greater awareness and care.
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You can also connect here if you are planning a project in Kenya in collaboration with a local organization and are seeking an ethical, context-sensitive psychological perspective to guide how you conduct your work and relationships on the ground.​​​​​
Organisational Consultancy
Speaking Engagements & Panels
I am open to speaking engagements and panel contributions on topics related to psychology, decoloniality, and broader social questions particularly within Kenyan and East African contexts. I bring a critical, relational, and systems-aware lens to conversations around wellbeing, identity, and collective change, and welcomes invitations to contribute to dialogues that seek depth, nuance, and transformation.
Therapy is a space to slow down, understand yourself more deeply, and explore the experiences, relationships, and patterns that shape how you move through the world.
Kenya only!
WHAT PEOPLE SAY:
"It immediately felt warm, welcoming, and like a safe space.”
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“I’ve changed the way I see myself and relate to myself.”​​​
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“The Decolonial theme felt refreshing."
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"I feel seen and heard in a way that I haven’t experienced before."
What is a Discovery Call?
This 45 minute call is a space to connect, get to know each other, and explore what support might look like for you. Whether you’re looking for coaching, therapy, or consulting, we’ll talk through what you’re navigating, what you’re hoping for, and whether my approach aligns with what you need. This is simply a space to explore, with no pressure or obligation to move forward.